This actually has been a trending question for decades now and many have their own view on weather its a Yes or No.
I choose this topic cos am a victim of such of course I have my own view on why it's a No.
In some instance whereby two opposite sex grew up together from childhood to adulthood of course those times being a child would be clean thought but getting to the age of maturity wrong thoughts start coming in even though either of them would be scared to open up.
I've also had experience in case whereby by the both friends are in serious relationship with someone else thus there is a 40% possibility of no strings attached but could be dangerous cos mistakes or circumstances may occur.
Once two best friends engaged in sexual trust me that friendship is dead and can never be rebuild.
Put me for example, am in a serious relationship but have a childhood friend whom we've shared almost everything in common. She's the opposite sex.
Now fact that am in a serious relationship and she is also in a serious relationship best thing for us is to reduce our closeness for the sake or saving our own relationship with our partner. No lady will wanna see her man close to another lady than her even if the lady is his sister likewise the guy. So to save your own relationship there must be a limit.
On this occasion I boldly say NO two opposite sex can never be best of friends.
Rather, make your own woman or man your best friend.
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