My wife's attitude is annoying and frustrating, What do I do?

A fan sent me a mail last night asking for my advice and share  so you guys can help in advising.

PS: Vulgar comments will not be welcome. 

As sent by the fan.

Hello Emmanuel,
Trust you're doing good. Lemme just go straight to the point.
I've been married for 3 years now, though before then my wife's attitude is not welcoming, when we were just dating she puts up annoying attitudes After which she will apologize, I'll forgive and it's settled. I thought if I get married to her she'll change for good but it grew worse, she nags unnecessary, get angry over little thing, act like she don't care, etc.  Each time I cation her concerning her attitude, she always promise to change but in the end repeat same mistake even worse.  Currently I no longer stay in the house cos I can't condole her attitude and I feel like getting a divorce. Please I need your advice so I don't take a decision I'll forever regret.  But I love her so much.
Help me publish it on your blog as well.
Thanks and God bless. 

            (Name Removed)  Austin TX (USA)

My Advice.

Hello Mr (Name Removed) 
Thank you for taking out time to outline your marriage problems to us. We appreciate and promise to keep you anonymous.
Regarding you wife's attitude, she is not the only woman with a bad attitude, infact I will bodly say 90% of women have similar attitude.
I could take my own relationship for example.
But what you must know is women are flexible, open minded and emotional.
The best advice I can give to you Sir is,  rather than planning for a divorce or complain bitterly about your wife's attitude, learn to embrace the attitude,  get used to it,  don't try changing her cos that might be her own lifestyle. Lemme presume you have talk to her but she keeps repeating it.  That's a clear sign she can't be who you want her to be.  So in that view learn to accept her the way she is.  Truly it would be tough trying to blend with her attitude but trust me. When she sees you accept her the way she is, she'll try her best to stop such attitude. I can bodly testify cos it worked for me.  And quit thinking about getting a divorce cos you might end up with even worse attitude than hers.  One last thing you must know.  No one is perfect but together you both can work towards perfection. 

Warm regards
Monday Emmanuel (Love curb)


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